Weblog

Tuesday, 27 October 2009

  • For My Stalking Convenience

    One of my pet peeves is when people don't add a caption on pictures they post on Facebook.  For the sake of their friends, they should give a description!  It isn't necessary for every picture... but it would be nice for most of these to have a summary of what's going on.  This is particularly nice for people (like me) when they are stalking other people (like you). 

Thursday, 15 October 2009

  • Stereotyping the Market

    In one of my classes, we were talking about market segments.  There's a website that allows you to enter your zip code, to "get your neighborhood's top five segments, along with some descriptive detail about each segment's lifestyle traits."

    Naturally, I wanted to see what it would say about my hometown, and some of the surrounding area.  And, well, shucks!  Apparently I live in Hicktown, USA.  Its most prominent segment was "Shotguns & Pickups."  In contrast to everything said about this portion of society, I feel compelled to say that rednecks they may be, but they aren't all bad.  They're, for the most part, good, honest people who you don't feel bad about having as your neighbors.  They're the ones who will bake you a pie, and welcome you to the neighborhood.  They're also the ones who have a truck, and don't mind coming to pull you out when you're stuck in your driveway full of snow. 

    Sure, they might be a bit rough around the edges, but who are we to judge? 

Tuesday, 06 October 2009

  • Growing Up, Facebook Edition

    In my family, there are several cousins - and I'm the youngest of them all, on one side.  On the other, I have one who's ten years younger than me, which makes her 12.  I recently got wondering if she had a Facebook yet, thinking that she probably didn't - she's too young and innocent for those kinds of things!  (Not that Facebook isn't young and innocent, as well.)

    Indeed, she does have a Facebook account.  Of course, I friended her, and was astonished to find that my little cousin is growing up.  When did this happen?!  Shouldn't she still be about eight, climbing on my lap, asking me to tell her a story? 

    Also, since when has having a Facebook account become a coming of age ritual?  Back when I was a kid, I told people I was "almost 13" the whole summer before I turned 13, but that's about it.  Not that Facebook is a coming of age ritual, but it is something that was previously reserved for those of the college age, so I guess that's why I see it as such.

    I'm not sure which worries me more - the fact that my little cousin is growing up, or the fact that I'm getting old, and starting to show signs of it.  Granted, I'm not quite dead yet, but I'm getting closer every day.   (As is everyone else.  A cheery thought!)  It's just so bizarre.  It's like she's a little adult now, writing in complete sentences, using punctuation marks to pepper them.  (She was always a good student, though... so this isn't a new development, anyway.  But still.) 

    Either way, I love her - and am proud of her.  She's growing up on me, but she's also becoming an astute, articulate person. 

Thursday, 01 October 2009

  • The Truth Will Set You Free

    Tonight I watched Control Room, a documentary about Al Jazeera's coverage on the war.  One thing that was repeated throughout the film was it isn't like our (American) media portrayed.  I can understand that; according to journalistic standards, you target your audience.  You do it truthfully, but you target them. 

    With that in mind, what is truth?  I know it's a widely discussed and pondered topic, but it's so compelling.  I've been thinking about it for nearly two decades (since I wasn't thinking about it as a baby).  When in need of thought, this is a highly recommended topic!

    Wake up!  Wake up!  Wake up!  Something is happening in the world, and you are still sleeping.  Wake up!

    This is what one of the Al Jazeera managers said.  I think he has a valid point; there are things in the world going on, and we aren't even aware of them.  The question is, are we unaware of them by a lack of caring, ignorance, or preoccupation?

    All of them can be changed, surely.  However, as was brought up in this documentary, we forget so quickly.  It's true.  We forget the pain, we forget seeing the injured and dead.  Scars fade.  I think it's better that way, sometimes.   If we are constantly reminded of hurt, sadness and broken lives, it will consume us.  I want to change the world.  I want to make things better for someone, anyone.  Yet, I still drive by people standing in the rain, holding a sign, saying that anything will help.  I still buy myself gum, soda, and chocolate.  It's the American way. 

    It's this kind of everyday hypocrisy that drives me insane.  Yet I'm as guilty as anyone else.  But... the truth will set you free.  There are some things that are undeniably true.  If any man is hungry, let him eat.  If any man is thirsty, give him a drink.  On basic ethical questions, we know what the right answers are... but even those are difficult to abide by at times. 

    The United States is going to stop the United States... I have faith in their Constitution, in their people. 

    This is what another journalist said, when questioned about who would stop the United States, as he was upset (rightfully so) about civilian deaths. 

    The point is not to criticize the American media (though they are far from objective), nor to praise Al Jazeera, but to consider where information comes from... and how we determine its truthfulness. 

Monday, 28 September 2009

  • Engagements

    One of my best friends from l'universite is engaged.  I'm very happy for her, of course... but find it ironic that a little over a year ago, I was ready to tell her to dump his sorry ass.  So much for that idea.  She knows herself, and her fiance better than I, though.  I trust her judgment.

    Someone I barely know just told me that he just got married.  This, weeks (?) after he had been telling me about his girl problems, being unsure of the choice between a girl and her friend... and now he's gone and married her?!  I'm flabbergasted.  Marriage isn't something you should jump into, without being at least somewhat prepared... not this kid.  Granted, I don't know him that well, and I don't know the girl at all.  However, I know him well enough to know that he shouldn't be jumping into marriage...

    It makes me think, though, arranged marriages can work.  Then again, they're generally performed in cultures where divorce is not accepted - so they have to work.  It's also a preconceived acceptance; you will be married, and you will stay married.  I don't know, but it seems as though they would be compelling factors to accept an arranged marriage.  So, no such luck for that kid, in comparing his haphazard marriage to an arranged one. 

    I suppose it will be interesting to see how they work out...  (and I shall be thankful to be free of engagements.)

Ktothetin

  • Visit Ktothetin's Xanga Site
    • Name: Ktothetin
    • Gender: Female
    • Member Since: 9/28/2008

Weblog Archives

Don't worry - your calendar is here… to see it in action just click "Save" above and refresh the page.